Tuesday, December 31, 2013

MENU - FIRST HALF OF JANUARY 2014

Here are three new recipes for you, then our food plan for the next couple weeks

* pasta Athena - Pasta, shrimp, olives, garlic, spinach, feta .... delicious!

* broccoli bacon salad - A combo of two different recipes, this is what I took to Thanksgiving dinner last month, but forgot to post until recently.   

* tortellini salad with pecans, cranberries, and feta - More pasta and feta, but totally different from the first recipe I linked.  Yummy!


BREAKFASTS
* doughnuts x2
* oatmeal with brown sugar, cinnamon, milk, raisins, fruit, huh-koe-pee milk, and energy mix as optional toppings 
     - with cottage cheese and fruit x4
     - with yogurt and fruit smoothies x3
* egg & potato scramble (ours are always made with a ton of chopped spinach, often some chopped tomatoes, and always a sprinkling of some type of cheese)/toast x4
* sour cream pancakes/smoothies

WEEKDAY LUNCHES  
* meat & cheese sandwich/peas/apples x2
* crackers/cheddar/cukes/olives x2
* peanut butter & jelly sandwich on oatmeal pancakes/applesauce/peas
* oat & almond bars/carrots/hummus
black bean dip/crackers/carrots/red bell peppers
* tuna sandwiches/red bell peppers/pea pods

DINNERS
* leftovers x2
tacos (meat and crockpot beans from the freezer) x2
* teriyaki chicken (crockpot, raw from the freezer)/rice/simple roasted broccoli
* oriental rice salad/roasted green beans
* do-it-all salmon (Tim's catch, from the freezer)/rice/new recipe
* brown rice lentil salad over spinach
* penne & sausage casseroles (freeze half the sauce for another day)/salad with pears & cranberry vinaigrette
* sesame honey chicken (crockpot, raw from the freezer)/rice/garlic roasted cauliflower
* black bean & couscous salad (except I'm going to try it with quinoa)

SNACKS & DESSERTS
* produce
* hummus for veggies
* nuts - pistachios & roasted almonds
* popcorn
* caramel apple cookies (we're all currently in love with these)

Monday, December 30, 2013

BOOKS I FINISHED - NOVEMBER & DECEMBER 2013

I forgot to do a post last month and didn't realize it until December was well underway, so I decided to do a combination of both months in one post.  Here we go, starting with the most recent book and working our way to the oldest.

The Pioneer Woman Cooks: Recipes from an Accidental Country Girl, written by Ree Drummond

Tana gave me this book and I had fun going through it, both alone and with Naomi.  Now that I've read all of it, I look forward to trying some of the recipes!



Homeschooling: The Middle Years: Your Complete Guide to Successfully Homeschooling the 8 to 12 Year-Old Child, written by Shari Henry


Random pick off the library shelf.  Nothing particularly enlightening and I'm not a fan of the attitude that homeschooling is superior to public school or that public school has nothing positive about it, but I did get a couple of ideas and some websites for the kids to use.



Money, Possessions, and Eternity, written by Randy Alcorn

Excellent book!  Alcorn takes a significant amount of time to talk about money from a spiritual perspective of eternity, talks quite a bit about materialism and prosperity theology, places great value on giving, and discusses money issues pertaining to individuals, families, Christian organizations, and churches. The book is filled with scripture references and includes a study guide in the back, which I didn't use and don't have an opinion about.

Here are some of the other topics he addresses - asceticism, stewardship (eternal destiny, eternal rewards, relationship to master), pilgrim mentality, tithing, giving, helping the poor, reaching the lost, ministry finances and fund-raising, making money, owning possessions, choosing a lifestyle, borrowing, lending, saving, retiring, insuring, gambling, investing, leaving an inheritance, teaching kids about money, financial integrity and accountability in churches, using ministry funds for buildings, co-signing, and whether or not giving should be done secretly.

While Dave Ramsey can be very helpful for someone needing practical help with getting out of debt and forming a budget, the "how" of money management, I think Randy Alcorn does an excellent job of getting to the "why" of money management.  Each man addresses both issues, but their books are totally different.

One of the things I liked about this book is that he talks a lot about raising your standard of giving, not your standard of living, when given pay increases and about keeping your own life fairly simple in order to make impacting changes in the lives of others ... but he does not take it to a point of legalistically coming up with numbers of acceptable or unacceptable dollar amounts and is totally fine with budgeting for things like vacations or eating out.

One of my goals in parenting is to raise kids who are wise managers of their money and cheerful givers. We start to work on those things when they're young and so far they are doing well for their ages, but I think I'm going to make this book be required reading as they get older.

p. 90,  (on prosperity theology)  For any gospel that is more true in America than it is in China is not the true gospel.

p. 93, (talking about money, but true in many areas) Unless the right choice is deliberately made and tenaciously clung to, the wrong choice will naturally be implemented.

p. 101, What we do with our money doesn't lie.  It is a bold statement to God of what we truly value.  But what we do with our money doesn't simply indicate where our heart it.  According to Jesus, it determines where our heart goes.  <snip>  If I want my heart to be in one particular place and not in another, then I need to put my money in that place and not in the other.  <snip>  As surely as the compass needle follows north, your heart will follow your treasure.  Money leads; hearts follow.

p. 120, What you do with your resources in this life is your autobiography.

p. 309, (the first of six assumptions of the debt mentality) We need more than God has given us.  (the third) God has failed to provide for our needs, forcing us to take matters into our own hands. <snip>  It's one thing to trust God to provide for our present needs (Matthew 6:33).  It's another to presume upon him by dictating (via a decision to incur debt) the terms of his future provision.

p. 344, (on the way people used to depend on family, neighbors, church, and community, rather than insurance, in times of need)  His "insurance" was his own participation in the community.  People cared, helped, and prayed.  God worked through these personal relationships to meet not only material but emotional and spiritual needs.

p. 365, There's an unfortunate myth that if our hearts are right God will automatically bless us, even if our heads are empty when it comes to sound business principles. We must be careful not to presume upon God's favor and expect him to bail us out of unwise decisions.



True Crime: True Stories of the World's Infamous Murderers, Thieves, and Con Artists, written by Nick Yapp

My dad gave me this as a birthday gift over the summer and I've been slowly making my way through it over the last several months.  Morbid and graphic, so it's definitely not for everyone, but I really enjoyed it.



I didn't actually read the whole book, but I skimmed through it.  I bought my copy of this book in college, nearly twenty years and half my life ago, shortly after it came out.  There were things I didn't agree with or couldn't relate to, but I remember soaking up the feeling that someone understood my reality.  I wrote notes in the margins and a roommate later bought me Letters From Motherless Daughters, which I proceeded to sob my way through.  Eventually both books ended up on my shelves and I kinda forgot about them.

A couple years ago Beep asked if she could look at Motherless Daughters and I gave her permission to read my notes and make her own.  So reading the book this time around meant reading notes of my own that I'd totally forgotten about (some feelings are the same, some are different now), reading Beep's notes, and reading again parts of the books that intrigued me.



Misconception: One Couple's Journey from Embryo Mix-Up to Miracle Baby, written by Paul and Shannon Morrell, with Angela Hunt

This was the second book I read about this IVF disaster, the first being written by the couple carrying the baby and mentioned farther down in this post.  The first book was definitely written better, but I wasn't interested in figuring out who was the more gifted author.  I just wanted to hear the perspectives of both sets of parents involved in this mess.  I can't imagine what it must have been like for either couple.  Such stress, heartache, fear, anger ... and no one else who could understand what they were going through.  Hard stuff, for sure!



Henry Huggins, written by Beverly Cleary

School for Naomi.  We opted to listen to it on CD this time around and heard this version, which is read by Neil Patrick Harris.



Mountain Born, written by Elizabeth Yates & illustrated by Nora Spicer Unwin

School for Naomi.  The story of a boy who raises a sheep from a nearly dead newborn through adulthood.  A story of maturity, farming, hard work, simplicity, and relationships.  I think I quoted this part the last time we read the book, but I like it.

p. 47,  Old Benj once said, "A man must have a care to what he puts in his mind, for when he's alone on a hillside and draws it out, he'll want treasures to be his company, not regrets."



Shelley recommended this book and I really enjoyed it.  It's the simultaneously fascinating and disturbing story of a couple who, through errors made by medical staff during the IVF process, end up pregnant with someone else's child.  It's their last chance to be pregnant and the baby, through no fault or choice of their own, is not theirs.  Great read!

Here is what I told Shelley.


I did/do have some thoughts about them calling Logan a gift.I don't think he was. He belonged to the Morells the whole time and never belonged to the Savages. What happened was so phenomenally wrong. Wrong, wrong, wrong. I can't even begin to fathom what it would be like to be robbed of your last opportunity to be pregnant with your own child *or* to go through an entire pregnancy/delivery/etc. for a baby that you wanted to keep, but couldn't *or* to have no one in your life who truly understood your situation *or* to be the one paying the consequences for someone else's grandiose mistake, while simultaneously not really having any rights ... and on and on. I have nothing but sympathy for the situation.

That being said, Logan simply wasn't Sean and Carolyn's baby. You can't gift something that didn't belong to you in the first place. 

If you and I both order new couches, but yours comes to my house while I'm gone and my family, not realizing it's the wrong one, starts to use it, that doesn't make it mine. It doesn't matter that it's not our fault it came to us, that it goes perfectly with our decor and we love it, that it's going to be an inconvenience to get it to your house, that the furniture company slacked in their work, or that we'll have to wait and figure out another way to get our couch. Getting the couch from my house to your house doesn't mean I've given you a gift in any way, shape, or form. I'm simply returning something to it's rightful owner. I know that couches aren't equal to humans and that there are holes in my example, but I'm sure you understand my point. 


So, I wouldn't say they gave a gift. I'd simply say they did the right thing. A very painful thing that required great sacrifice on their part, the effects of which will never go away completely.




Short book that I read after crawling into bed one night.  I've heard friends mention it in the past, so I got it from the library.  The author is an autistic college student who gives very brief lessons about autistic people. I know a lot of people with family members on the spectrum and have learned much from them over the years,  so I didn't learn a ton from this book.  However, it would be a good read if you have someone on the spectrum in your life.

Actually, you probably know people on the spectrum, even if you don't think you do.  So read it anyway.  It will help you better understand them and, perhaps, help you extend grace toward their parents when you don't think they're handling things correctly.  Sometimes there is more going on than you think.

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Saturday, December 28, 2013

GIRLS' DAY OUT

We found out a week or two ago that Silas and Devon would be at a grade school event yesterday.  Devon was going because he's a grade schooler and Silas was going to help, but the event was only for older grade schoolers and Naomi was too young.  I told her that we'd make up for it by doing something fun while they were gone. Little did she know what I had up my sleeve.

Naomi got a note in her stocking on Christmas telling her that Tim and I were letting her get her ears pierced as a Christmas gift.


We've opted to let piercings be something we do if and when the kids ask for them and it was just recently that Naomi first expressed an interest in having it done.  So that was the secret plan for yesterday, which she didn't know until after Christmas.  Rather than just getting pierced and being done with it, we spent the whole day together.

Two female Ws ready to go.


Jazz?  Check.

Tillamook cheddar, Food Should Taste Good's multi-grain chips, Triscuits, apples, mandarins, bean dip, pea pods, green beans, and water?  Check.


We stopped at the bank, then headed to Ross for a return.  Naomi loves looking around stores, so we also did some browsing while we were there.

The next stop was the Beaverton library. We used to spend hours there every week, but Naomi doesn't remember that all.  We spent nearly an hour snuggled up on a chair with a stack of books. Then we headed out to the car.


We then drove a couple blocks away to Black Hole - Beaverton (website and Facebook page), which is where I had my nose pierced many years ago and where Naomi was about to get both ears pierced.  She went to the counter and asked for pierced ears, I filled out some paperwork, she chose some earrings, then we waited for our room to get prepared.


Naomi decided to smash her earlobes just for fun, simply because she won't be able to for a while.


"Hey, mom, take a picture of my serious face."


In our room, Naomi had a little bit of nervous energy.



Before I go on, let me tell you what she said to me several days ago.  She told me she wanted to get her ears pierced, but she was a little bit afraid that they'd accidentally kill her.  That seemed a bit irrational, so I did a little investigating.  It turns out that she thought the gun used to pierce ears was a regular gun ... as in, "ready, aim, fire" ... and she was concerned that their aim would be off, that they'd miss her ear and hit her head.  Oh my!  The fact that she, my kid least likely to take a risk, was willing to put her life on the line for some earrings was a pretty big deal!  I explained that the place we were going to doesn't use guns, but I also showed her a bunch of pictures online of piercing guns so that she'd understand lives weren't being threatened by the piercing process.  Sweet girl.

Anyway, moving on.  She asked questions about pierced navels and what happens when you sleep on new piercings, things she heard conversations about in the lobby, while she got her ears cleaned.


Sat up straight when asked to and listened to everything that was being explained to her.


Then she had one pierced ear.  And some tears, because, after all, a needle just went through her flesh and it hurt.  And because she's a crier.  Which is fine.

She grabbed the mirror and a little smile broke through the tears.  We relaxed for a few minutes and practiced a few more deep breaths, then she said she was ready for the next ear.


Done!  Two earrings - one pink and one purple, because that's what she wanted.  One splotchy face from crying.  And a forced smile, because she was in a little pain.


Within seconds she was making a fake crying face, and that's when I knew she was good to go.


A group had arrived to get tattoos at the same time we did and had visited with Naomi a bit before we went back to get pierced, so we hung out for a while after we were done so that she could watch one of the people in that group get their tattoo started. Then she skipped down the sidewalk to our car.


Next on the agenda was Powell's - Cedar Hills Crossing for an hour of book reading.


"Mom, can I take a picture of you?"


So serious.


Smiling.


Crazy girl


Her weird eye trick.


Perhaps my favorite picture of the day.  She looks so grown up and beautiful!


She asked to stop long enough on our way out the door to strike a Statue of Liberty pose.


Next stop?  Target.   Actually, we drove by our old house first, just for kicks.  Then we went to Target.

Naomi received a pair of hand-me-down boots a few years ago and wore them constantly.  They died a few months ago and she sobbed hysterically.  Being a good mom, I posted pictures of her world falling apart on Facebook for the whole world to see.  The pictures were just too good not to share.  Well, one of the church grandmas gave us some money last weekend with instructions to get Naomi a new pair of pink boots.  So, that's why we went to Target.  I, of course, forgot to take pictures of the boots until we were home, even though she put them on immediately and wore them the rest of the day, hence the random pictures from home in the middle of a post about our day away from home.

Crouching, so as to be as close to the pink boots as possible.


Trying to look tough, but mostly looking way older than she is.


Back to Target.  She looked at every toy on the shelf and we had fun with masks.


We never go to malls, but she loves browsing, so I asked if she wanted to go to Washington Square.  She did!  She giggled her way down the road as the people in a car next to us returned her smile and wave, and continued to do so for about 1/4 mile of barely moving traffic. We finally got to the mall, walked around, she got a sample from See's, we smelled a gazillion things in Bath & Body Works, she tried a glittery body spray on her arms (you can't see it in the picture, but I assure you that it's there), and we went into a little shoe store just to look at high heels.


Finally, we headed to Cold Stone, gift cards in hand, for our last stop before picking up Silas and Devon.

Raspberry sorbet with gummy bears for Naomi.


White peppermint with brownies for me.


Two happy tummies.


Eight hours together and zero dollars spent, thanks to money we were given to spend on Christmas gifts and a Cold Stone gift card stash that people so generously keep us supplied with.  What an absolutely perfect day with my favorite six year old!!  We had such a good time together!!!

Friday, December 27, 2013

CHRISTMAS 2013

We hosted Christmas for the first time since 2009 this year.  That time Granny was with us, this time Teebs was ... so our numbers were the same.  Nine people, lots of presents, plenty of food, and a day full of talking, playing, reading, and relaxing.

Here are the 6 Ws.  Unfortunately I failed to get a group shot on our camera, but my dad has one on his Christmas Eve post.


Naomi used her new Hello Kitty vanity supplies to freshen up Debra's nails.


Debra, Dad, and Devon worked on a two-sided Beaver puzzle that Devon received.


Silas, Ashley, and Tim play Bananagrams while Teebs looks adoringly at his Aunt Ashley.


Naomi, Debra, Silas, and Ashley play Bananagrams together.


Devon and Dad brush up on some theology with the Brick Bible.


I read some books from our Christmas stash to Naomi.


There are several more pictures on our Picasa page and on my dad's Christmas Day post, including ones of the funniest gift of the day.

Monday, December 23, 2013

CHRISTMAS NEWSLETTER - 2013 EDITION

2013 - A WEATHERSBY YEAR IN REVIEW

Roses are red
It's the time of year
To let you all know
What's been going on here

Tim earned a license
To administrate schools
These days he's subbing
And enforcing class rules

Bethany blogs
She cleans and she cooks
She's a homeschooling mom
And she reads lots of books

Silas is a talker
He'll soon start volunteering
He enjoys playing piano
So lots of music we're hearing

Devon's a joker
Often up a tree
He loves puzzles and books
And origami

Naomi loves dancing
Has a tender heart
She also makes weird faces
And thinks it's funny to fart

Teebs is so busy
He moves all the time
He loves singing and running
And finding things to climb

We do lots of things
Like shooting hoops
Helping at church
Joining homeschool groups

Jumping on trampolines
Going for walks
Baking cookies
Having interesting talks

Both public and private
This year's had some trials
But we've had so many blessings
That have brought lots of smiles

We're thankful for those
Whose paths ours have crossed
And for the love of Jesus
Without which we're lost

Merry Christmas!!

The 6 Ws
Tim, Bethany, Silas, Devon, Naomi, Tyler


And now our latest batch of family pictures, which we are so thankful we were able to get done this year!

Stunt time.

Snuggle time.


Couple time.


Kid time.  The one where Silas said, "You can tell I have my legs kicked up, but it looks like Devon has a horn."

Kid time.  The one where Devon, in reply to the photographers request that the kids line up, said, "By age or by height?  Because they're different lines."



Sunday, December 22, 2013

TWO VISITORS

I met a family during my junior year of college that had three kids, two girls and boy.  One was five years old and the other was an infant when I met them.   I haven't seen the girls for at least eight years, possibly longer, but we keep in touch on Facebook.

Eleven days ago the younger sister sent me a message asking if she could stay at our house for a night this weekend. We, of course, said that would be fine.  It was a very brief visit, as she arrived really late last night and headed out first thing this morning, but she got to see Silas and Devon, who were one and three the last time she saw them, and meet Naomi and Teebs, who hadn't existed back then.

Four days after the younger sister wrote to me, we were at church and I saw a familiar face walking toward me.  It was the older sister, the one who doesn't even live in the state. She was in the area and had come to church with a friend.  She didn't know where we went to church, so we were all surprised to run into each other.  She spent the night with us on Wednesday and hung out through lunch on Thursday.

Posing with Kristyn, the older sister, at midnight on Wednesday.


Posing with Kasey, the younger sister, at 1:00 this morning.


It was totally random that I'd see both of them within days of each other, but so much fun!   They were in grade school and high school the last time I saw them.  Now one is a college graduate who is doing an internship for full-time ministry with Chi Alpha, the other finished high school a year early and is a college student on track to get her Masters in four years.  Time flies!

Saturday, December 21, 2013

I WAS GIVEN A MAKEOVER

Naomi recently asked if she could do my hair and makeup, so I sat on the living room floor and she got down to business.

First she hydrated and conditioned my hair, because that's what curly girls do.  Light on the hydrating, heavy on the conditioning ... particularly on the top part of my hair.

Then she put some sort of light pink makeup on my lips.


And on my eyelids.


And on my cheeks.


And on my forehead.


do like efficiency, so an all-purpose makeup was perfect for the job!

Next she started styling my well-conditioned hair. Her approach to hair styling is something like "if some is good, then more is better".  One can never have too many pretty accessories in their hair, right?  I had fifteen, so I was definitely the prettiest person on the block!



She was so proud of her work!  Love that girl!