Saturday, March 31, 2018

52 HIKE CHALLENGE - MARCH 2018

Hike #10- 3/11/18 - Graham Oaks Nature Park
2.60 miles this day
23.80 miles this year


It was somewhat warm and totally sunny, so five of us went for a quick hike on our way home from church. We've done this trail numerous times, but convenience trumped trying something new. 










Hike #11 - 3/16/18 - Tualatin Hills Nature Park
3.90 miles this day
27.70 miles this year


We decided to head to an old favorite we hadn't visited in years, a park Silas and Devon had been asking to go to for a long time, Naomi didn't remember, and Tyler had never been to. 


The picture doesn't capture it well, but there was a layer of red branches above the green reeds and I thought it looked neat.










"Hey, Mom, it's a two! Actually, it's a twelve!", Tyler exclaimed as we walked along.



Kaleidoscopes pointing to plants.



Hike #12 - 3/25/18 - Legion Park
1.50 this day
29.20 this year

Scheduling conflicts this week meant squeezing in some laps around a local park and calling it a hike. I used the outing as an opportunity for one-on-one time with Tyler.


Hike #13 - 3/31/18 - Champoeg State Park
3.00 this day
32.20 this year

Sometimes you're tired, have work to do, and aren't particularly enjoying humanity, but you go for a hike anyway. Like today. Still want to crawl in bed, have things to get done, and find people to be a bother, but the time outside was bliss and I'm glad we went.


Isn't this amazing?! We stopped at a little viewpoint and I noticed a pile of twigs on the bench I was approaching. This is what I discovered as I sat down! I love the creativity of the person who made this and am thankful they left it for people to enjoy. I showed the other Ws, told a couple who as standing two feet away and hadn't noticed in when we passed by later, and another family who was approaching it. So cool!



Tyler keeps finding numbers on the trails when we hike.


Doesn't it look like a giant dandelion where the branch was cut off? It was about twenty feet up the tree and I thought it looked neat.


The collection continues and documentation is always requested.


Thursday, March 29, 2018

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful that Tim replaced the oven light. What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Monday, March 26, 2018

ASPIRING LEADERS' RETREAT

I had the opportunity to attend a 24 hour Pampered Chef retreat that started on Friday evening. It was a great to spend time with gals I've spent the last six months getting to know, meet some new people, be encouraged and challenged in regards to my business, and spend a bunch of time chatting, eating, and laughing. 

I'm so thankful for leaders who consistently pour into the businesses and personal lives of all the people on their teams. I'm also thankful for teammates who ask good questions, give helpful feedback, and are willing to be vulnerable with each other. It's a group of women who consistently speak life to each other, no matter what the topic of conversation is, and I'm so glad I get to be part of it! We all (minus one person who had to leave early) snapped a quick group shot before we all headed home at the end of our retreat. 


Except some of us didn't head home. Here I am with Dani (a friend of 27 years who's on my team) and Faith (a friend of 11 years whose team I'm on) right before we squeezed in a late lunch together. I'm glad it worked out to get a little extra time to just chat about life before we all went our separate ways!


Only time will tell what the future holds in regards to my Pampered Chef business, but what I do know is that right now a need for #BracesOnFaces is being met and I'm having a blast in the process. My prayer continues to be what it's been all along - that my business would be a blessing for everyone impacted by it and that I'd know what professional boundaries to establish for myself for the season of life I'm in right now.

Saturday, March 24, 2018

FREE FLOSSERS



The first set of #BracesOnFaces was put on Thursday morning. Today, two days later, there was a package of approximately five million special flossers in our mailbox. Anonymous giving rocks! Thank you, sender of this practical gift.

Friday, March 23, 2018

BRACES ON FACES - 1ST SET

I started my Pampered Chef business, which I run completely online, on September 5, 2017. My goal was to finance one set of braces in a year, a goal that was attainable without having my job consume my life. Six months, three days, several Pampered Chef paychecks, a little bit of Amazon affiliate and Random Conversation Starters income, and some totally unexpected gifts later, the first set was completely funded on March 8, 2018.

As I've said over and over, this experience has been so exciting and humbling. I'm incredibly grateful for a fun job that's allowing me to meet a need in our family, while also allowing me to be home full-time. I so thankful for people who have supported the endeavor through doing business with me, cheering me on, and helping in tangible ways.

Yesterday Silas had an appointment at Senestraro Family Orthodontics and walked out of the building with braces. So awesome! The office is aware of the pie chart I've been filling in along the way and someone suggested a group picture with the chart.


I love the picture because that piece of paper symbolizes so much more than a dollar figure and the fact we were all standing there together after just six months is nothing short of miraculous. Let's take a closer look at the pie chart.


Isn't that awesome?! Of course, I also required a picture alone with the recipient of the first set of braces before the day ended.


This #BracesOnFaces adventure has been fun and I can't wait to see how quickly the second pie chart, which is already colored in to 10%, gets filled up!

Photo credit: The group picture is from Sarah Hall.

Thursday, March 22, 2018

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for spring flowers in bloom. What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Monday, March 19, 2018

ON MY MIND

Sometimes you have all sorts of things you want to write about. Things like ...

Placing a great value on something most people don't feel is very important. Laughing with someone to the point of tears. Totally unexpected words of encouragement or gratitude about things I've been very intentional about, but have never drawn attention to. Considering how the things I complain about in others are often things I do myself. Pondering how my perceptions aren't always accurate, both in how I'm coming across to others and how others are coming across to me. Knowing the things that have hurt me are probably things I've done to hurt others, whether I was aware of it at the time or not.

Facing big parenting issues and wondering if my decisions will blow up in my face ten or twenty years down the road. Dealing with small parenting issues and being annoyed by the repetition of trivial problems. The joy of watching my kids thoroughly enjoy each other's company. The hypocrisy of yelling at my kids in frustration, even though I tell them they can be upset with each other, but still need to speak respectfully. The stress of watching a kid make really poor decisions and the peace of watching them make wise ones. The blessing of a spouse who is an equal contributor to parenting and household responsibilities when he's home. The frustration when spouses are sincerely trying to work through a problem, but can't figure out a solution. The unpleasantness of seeing my own weaknesses come to light through the dynamic of a marriage relationship. The ups and down, both mild and extreme, of sharing a life and roof with other people.

People who speak the truth in love, validating how I feel while challenging me to take responsibility for my part of various problems. Choosing not to share private matters publicly, whether by criticizing others, defending myself, or making people outside of the situation aware the problem exists, regardless of how others involved decide to handle it. The awkward moment when people suddenly remember I don't know what they're all talking about because I've been excluded from previous conversations that kept people in the loop. Realizing that a friendship isn't as important to the other person as it was to me. Realizing that a friendship isn't as important to me as I thought it was. Times of loneliness that have nothing to do with how many people are around me. The comfort of being known, and being loved anyway.

The risk of setting a goal that I'm not sure is attainable. The devastation of dreams being shattered for reasons beyond my control. Feeling like I'm drowning in responsibilities and wondering if I'm prioritizing everything correctly. Trying new methods of time management that work really well. Trying others that totally flop. Striving to find a balance between work, play, and rest in the midst of a life that's constantly shifting. Feeling tired more often than not. The low of feeling spiritually stagnant and the high of being in awe of Jesus. Being realistic, especially when I want to be irresponsibly optimistic or unnecessarily pessimistic.The discouragement of unfinished projects. The satisfaction of making something a priority, not just saying it's a priority.

Sometimes I don't have time to elaborate on any of those things. Sometimes I couldn't elaborate, even with all the time in the world. Sometimes I just need to list them out, to get it all out of my head and onto paper the best way I can.

Thursday, March 15, 2018

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful that Silas does well enough at driving now that sometimes I read a book while he's at the wheel. What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Friday, March 9, 2018

A PRE-RETIREMENT TRIP

Dad is retiring this month, eighteen years after he followed Tim and I to the Rogue Valley and started working at Providence Cancer Center, and I wanted the little Ws see what he does for a living before he's no longer doing it. Some had visited his workplace when we lived down there, but they don't remember it, and some had never been there at all. We hadn't been down for a visit as a family in over six years, so it seemed like a good time for a quick trip. 

We took off first thing Tuesday morning and this was my view from the passenger seat the whole way down. 


We'd allowed time for rest tops and traffic problems on the way down, but it was smooth sailing the whole way and we had a little bit of time to kill before our first stop in Ashland. We decided to do a tour of homes and show the kids where we used to live. 

I lived in three different units of this apartment complex over nine years, two roommates, one husband, and two kids. The upstairs unit in the background of this picture was our first home as a married couple and also where Devon was born. We lived on Iowa Street for a little over six years.


There was one year in the middle of my stint at the previous apartment complex, the year between college graduation and marriage, when I lived in this apartment on Walker Road with a roommate (one I'd lived with for a couple years in the other complex) and my brother.


Tim shared this apartment on Lincoln Street some other guys for two years, moving out when we got married.


This was such a whirlwind trip that our time was almost completely dedicated to family, but we did arrange ahead of time to pop in at my old workplace on their lunch break. My friend who I worked at the front desk with and two of the doctors were there. I'm thankful we were able to give them hugs, let them see the kids, and catch up a little bit on each other's lives. They were the best group of people to work with! I wish I'd thought to have Tim snap a picture of me with the three of them, but it didn't occur to me until later.

We headed to Great American next, having Dad and Debra join us there for lunch. Dijon chicken pizza for the win! Dad asked the server to snap a picture on his phone.


We headed to Dad and Debra's after lunch and spent time visiting and playing Watch Ya' Mouth. Next stop was Lithia Park to burn off some steam. Debra, Tim, and I hung out at the playground with Naomi and Tyler.


Dad, Silas, and Tyler went for a walk and came back with this picture taken in the spot Tim and I were married many years ago.


A quick shot of the kids on the bridge as we headed back to the cars ...


... as well as a few attempts at a family picture. The second two are fine, but Tyler's face in the first one cracks me up and I have no earthly idea what Tim is doing.




Ashley joined us for dinner, which included quite a bit of time spent with Dad and I beating Silas and Devon at a game that they couldn't figure out how to win.



Wednesday morning we did what we came to do, we visited Dad at work. We got to meet some co-workers I've interacted with on Facebook and heard lots of stories about, then he gave us a tour of the four main areas he works in. One is like a command station and we didn't get any pictures there, but here are some shots from the other areas where he's spent nearly two decades working as a radiation therapist. Room one was a linear accelerator, where patients are treated.




Room two was another linear accelerator.



Room three was the CT scanner, which you can't really see because most of the time was spent seeing how custom forms are made during patient simulations.





The staff made an informational video for new patients at one point and my dad, the fake patient for the project, had a custom mask made in the process. People always say we look alike (we do!), so I figured I'd try putting his face on. It's flattering, don't you think?


A quick group shot and then we left.


My view on the return trip was the same as it was the day before, but with the opposite side of the freeway in the background.


I'm grateful that we could coordinate everyone's schedules in such a way that the trip was able to happen and that the kids, who had a general concept of how Papa spends his days, got to see it up close and personal .

Photo credit: The pictures at Great American and of the big boys in the park are from my dad's camera. The third and fourth picture in the CT room, as well as the one of Dad and I, are from Tara Goffic.

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