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Showing posts with label guest post. Show all posts

Monday, April 30, 2018

BOOKS I FINISHED - APRIL 2018

The Ballad of Black Bart, written by Loren D. Estleman
This novel is based on Black Bart, a man who robbed Wells Fargo stagecoaches in California during the 1800s. The story was fine, but what I really loved was Estleman's use of vocabulary. I now have a whole list of words I understood based on context, but had never heard before.

p. 50, (H)e had long ago cut loose his team from the wagon of Regret and hitched it to Action.

p. 175, "A wolf in fleece rarely socializes with shepherds. They don't fool as easily as the flock."

God is Just Not Fair: Finding Hope When Life Doesn't Make Sense, written by Jennifer Rothschild
Irene gave me this book last fall and I finally got around to finishing it. It's filled with encouragement and admonition to press into Jesus when life is hard, words spoken from a woman who has faced major struggles of her own, including blindness and deep depression.

p. 35, Embracing the mystery of God's just inequality can save you from the bitterness that will wither up your soul and from resentment that will keep you chained to self-centeredness. 

p. 41, Our feelings are real, but they don't always reflect absolute reality.

p. 42, Feelings can be incredibly revealing, so don't repress them. But let them serve you rather than govern you.

p. 62, It is not wrong to wrestle with God. If God allows you to wrestle with him, it is not so there will be a winner and a loser. He doesn't need to prove he is stronger and you are weaker. No. The point of wrestling with God is to give you an opportunity to cling to him.

p. 114, Often our prayers are a way to corral our emotions to keep them from crushing our hearts.

p. 137, Our character rarely gets better just because our circumstances do.

p. 139, To embrace the concept of God's compassion and forbearance as it applies to our sins, yet to reject it as it applies to our suffering, is to reject part of the character of God. 

p. 178, After several terrifying months, God's grace gently guided me back to the truth that he did not call himself "I FEEL" or "I THINK", but "I AM". 

p. 190, (referring to John 3:30) It's a shift of focus. We do not ignore our pain or dismiss our sorrow. We do not neglect or debase ourselves. We just shift our focus. Instead of focusing on me and me alone, I glance at me and gaze at Jesus.

p. 210, She created a perfect past and projected a fantasy future - all with the word if.

p. 233, What you struggle with - whether it's debt, disease, grief, or any other number of difficulties - is not the whole picture. It's just one snapshot in the whole photo album that is your life. It is not forever. Eventually, life's pages will turn. Sure, this hard place will always be a part of you, but eventually, it will not be the biggest part of you. Just like an old photo in an album, the pain will become a faded memory.

The Running Dream, written by Wendelin Van Draanen
I enjoyed this novel about a teenager whose outstanding skill as a runner is cut short when she loses her leg in a car wreck. It's a great story about the sacrifices family members make for each other, loyalty of friends, power of a community, determination, and the importance of thinking past ourselves.

p. 314, It's disturbing how fast weeds take root in my garden of worthiness. They're so hard to pull. And they grow back so easily.

Shut Up, Stop Whining and Get a Life, written by Larry Winget
Although I disagree with him on some points, and quite strongly on occasion, Winget has a lot of good stuff to say in this book. In a nutshell, we need to stop complaining and making excuses, start taking responsibility for the way our life is going, and be willing to work hard.

p. 12, Few people will turn to themselves to take responsibility for their results until they have exhausted all opportunities to blame someone else.

p. 24, Knowledge is not power. It's the implementation of knowledge that is power.

p. 34, Affirmations are powerful. However, don't think that affirmations alone are going to change things for you. Just saying something won't change your results. Affirmation without implementation is self-delusion.

p. 86, If you don't know any better, then you are ignorant. If you know better and still do it, then you are stupid. Big difference.

p. 118, Unless you are a counterfeiter or the government, you don't make money. You earn money. Interesting how we forget that fact.

p. 119, By the way, the extra mile we have all hear about isn't very crowded - there's hardly anyone there at all.

p. 217, Stress comes from knowing what is right and doing what is wrong.

p. 227, Success isn't about passion. Success is about the combination of hard work and excellence.


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Tuesday, June 3, 2014

GUEST POST: SEVEN LIFE LESSONS TO CONSIDER

Liz Eischen, someone I'm acquainted with through church, posted the following on her Facebook page yesterday. I'm sharing it here, with her permission, because I think it's fantastic and just so happens to include some topics I've been discussing with friends recently and/or that are relevant to my life, and I assume to many of your lives. 


Some recent thoughts for you ...

1. Time has weight. It really does - where you spend your time and who you spend your time with accumulates. The more it accumulates, the more substance or significance it has. So, think about with whom and how you invest your time. 

2. People like to be invited. Don’t just assume that person knows they're invited. Invite them! Call, text, e-mail, message, tweet … whatever you do, extending an invitation to someone might end up being the best thing they've received all week.

3. Being brave is hard. Bravery is risky, requires sacrifice and often puts you at a place of vulnerability. Yet, bravery builds you. As my nearly-four-year-old nephew says to himself, when he encounters a scary, stretching or difficult situation, “I’m 100 brave.” Be that. Be 100 brave.

4. Never pity people. It never does anyone any good. It distorts your perspective of them. And, their perspective of you. So. Just don’t do it.

5. Speak to the things God has put in someone. Sometimes people don’t know who they are entirely. They can’t always see who they really are. Yet, when someone speaks to what God has put in that person, something ignites in their soul. Don’t speak to who people pretend to be. Speak to who they really are.

6. Sometimes the greatest adventure is right in front of you. Yep. I know, they say adventure is out there. So, we go in search of that moment of greatness. But often the greatest adventure is buried in the mess you are standing in right now. The best thing might be to be brave, have courage and STAY.

7. Don’t be so hard on yourself. You can’t do everything. So, don’t try. Instead, take what you have in front of you and do it well.



If you'd like to read more of Liz's thoughts, then check out her blog, Aspiring Servant, or the Aspiring Servant Facebook page


Wednesday, June 5, 2013

GUEST POST: GIVEAWAY - NEPALI SCARF

THIS GIVEAWAY HAS ENDED

The following is a guest post from Simone Coster, a friend of mine.  I'm posting it simply because I think giveaways are fun and that the organization she works for sounds pretty awesome.  

As a mom of three young boys there isn't anything that could make my heart heavier than not being able to provide for my little guys.

Unfortunately, there are many moms in extreme poverty all around the world that aren’t able to. Some moms are left with the choice of giving their children away, selling them to try and earn money, or stay together and starve. Being part of sex slavery, sweat shops, or raising kids with disabilities alone. For example, Nepal is one of the poorest countries in the world with a 42% unemployment rate. Every year, approximately 10,000 girls from the ages of 9 to 16 are stolen, sold, or forced into brothels.

I am blessed to be part of a business called Trades of Hope. Trades of Hope offers these women a chance. With the help of Cooperatives, Organizations and Missionaries, women are getting out of sex slavery and supporting their families! They are given a chance to not only survive, but live a life filled with meaning and hope. They are able to work and make lovely items that are being sold, at their asking price, in the United States. They are able to provide food for their families, shelter, schooling, and medical care. Things that I have taken for granted many times.

Being a full time mom and being a Compassion Entrepreneur for Trades of Hope and work as I choose is amazing! I love helping my family and helping a mom across the world at the same time! What other careers give you that option?

I would love to offer a giveaway of one Nepali Aqua Scarf to one lucky winner! To enter, please do any of the following.  Each person may have up to three entries.

#1 Leave a comment on this blog.
#2 “Like” www.facebook.com/simonecostertradesofhope, then leave a comment here saying you did it.
#3 Leave a comment on the above Facebook page, then leave a comment here saying you did it.

The last day to enter is June 19th at 8pm. The winner will be chosen at random and announced by June 21st at 12pm.


For more information about hosting a home or online party or or about becoming a Compassion Entrepreneur and joining my team, please visit www.mytradesofhope.com/simonecoster.