Tuesday, January 31, 2023

BOOKS I FINISHED - JANUARY 2023


The Catcher in the Rye, written by J.D. Salinger

A sixteen year old boy is going to be kicked out of yet another private school, but leaves early and spends a few days hiding out in New York before his parents expect him home for Christmas break. Depression, grief, depression, frustration, and some more depression fill the pages as he tells us all the reasons why he dislikes everyone and everything in his life, both past and present. There's something about him that I found endearing through all his negativity, drinking, chain smoking, and swearing, probably a combination of his love for his sister and my own experience with depression, but the book as a whole felt draining to me. I chose this book for the "novel that's considered a classic" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year.




Dancing at the Pity Party: A Dead Mom Graphic Memoir, written and illustrated by Tyler Feder

With candid vulnerability and a helpful sense of humor, Feder uses words and art to share her experience of becoming and being motherless. As someone whose own mom died young, I found this book relatable in so many ways. Discovering it by chance in the weeks between the anniversary of my own mom's death and her birthday was perfect timing. 




The Giver, written by Lois Lowry

It's an ideal community, one with clear expectations, predictable days, and a shared desire for what's best. Except it's not. With the help of someone older than him, a person experienced in the role he's just been assigned to, a twelve year old boy discovers what's missing, why it matters, and what he can do about it. I chose this book for the "science fiction novel" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year.

p. 193, "The worst part of holding the memories is not the pain. It's the loneliness of it. Memories need to be shared."




The Last Year of the War, written by Susan Meissner

Citizens and legal residents of America were incarcerated and sent to internment camps because of their heritage during WWII, and sometimes repatriated to their countries of origin when they didn't want or deserve to be. This novel is about a girl whose world was turned upside down when her innocent family experienced that unjust upheaval in their lives. It's a story of war, survival, racism, loyalty, family, friendship, and people trying to do the right thing when everything around them is wrong.

p.36, Papa had told me ages ago, years before the war, that terrible things can happen when you mix two things that don't belong together. He was worried I might one day naively mix laundry bleach with ammonia and he wanted to make sure I understood some things cannot be stirred together in the same pot because they will react in ways that will hurt someone. 

It is that way with fear and ignorance, I think. 

p. 54, Sometimes what you want is given to you in a way that is so very different from how you had pictured getting it.

p. 72, "Sometimes it's not about right and wrong but now and later. Right now, we are having to put up with a difficult situation that we don't deserve, and it's not right  But later, when the war is over, we'll remember that we didn't let it break us. Hmm? Do you understand?"

p. 130, "Maybe being brave is different from being unafraid. If you're not afraid, what is there to be brave about?"

p. 177, I had been told something like that before. That the past is nothing you can make friends or enemies of. It just is what it is. Or was. It is this day you are living right now, this very day, that is yours to make if it what you will. So make it beautiful, if you can.

p. 192, War takes a toll on civilians that is different from what it bleeds from it's soldiers. The deprivations of war are a slow but steady sacrifice.

p. 218, Love, when it's lavished on you after you've said ugly things, is almost too much to bear.

p. 234, We decide who and what we will love and who and what we will hate. We decide what we will do with the love and hate. Every day we decide. It was this that revealed who we were, not the color of our flesh or the shape of our eyes or the language we spoke.

p. 276, Sometimes, after a long stretch of misfortune, compassion is not what you want most, not even when it comes from a good friend. There comes a time when what you want is for your situation to be different.





The Maid, written by Nita Prose

With a protagonist who struggles to understand subtlety and social cues, a wealthy man found dead in the hotel room she's responsible for cleaning, and lots of people keeping secrets, this murder mystery managed to be heartwarming while dealing some plot twists I didn't see coming. I chose this book for the "book by a Canadian author" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year.

p. 22, "Never ask what a gentleman did or didn't do. If he's a true gentleman, he did it with good cause. And if he's a true gentleman, he'll never tell."

p. 22, You can't judge a person by the job they do or by their station in life; you must judge a person by their actions.

p. 247, For the first time in my life, I think I understand what a true friend is. It isn't just someone who likes you; it's someone willing to take action on your behalf.





A short book that elaborates on a prayer found in I Chronicles 4:9-10, the reader is encouraged to focus on four specific things to pray for. Although it could become formulaic, and despite not totally syncing up with his view in one specific situation, I think there's value in examining the prayers found in the Bible and applying what we learn to our own spiritual life. This book was the January part of a year-long gift from a friend, one book to unwrap and read each month.

p. 24, When we seek God's blessing as the ultimate value in life, we are throwing ourselves entirely into the river of His will and power and purposes for us. 

p. 32, O God and King, please expand my opportunities and my impact in such a way that I touch more lives for your glory. Let me do more for you!

p. 39, Whatever our gifts, education, or vocation might be, our calling is to do God's work on earth. If you want, you can call it living out your faith for others. You can call it ministry. You can call it every Christian's day job.

p. 69, Lord, keep me from making the mistakes I'm most prone to when temptation comes. I confess that what I think is necessary, smart, or personally beneficial is so often only the beautiful wrapping on sin. So please, keep evil far from me!

p. 71, Lord, keep me safe from temptations that pull at my emotions and my physical needs, that call out to my sense of what I deserve, what I have the "right" to feel and enjoy. Because You are the true source of all that is really life, direct my steps away from all that is not of You.





Kurczy, a journalist who's chosen to live without a cell phone for a decade, dives deep into a part of our country where technology is critical to local astronomy, which means other technology that emit radio waves are forbidden. It's a non-fiction book about living alongside the headquarters of a white supremacy group, trying to understand people who claim to be electrosensitive, connections to a Department of Defense facility, wondering why a famous doctor who's been given huge amounts of money to build a hospital hasn't done so in decades, murders both unsolved and where justice is taken care of outside the court system, misrepresentation of a community by the media, and the effects of both enforcing and disregarding technology restrictions. I chose this book for the "book you've been meaning to read but haven't got to" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year.

p. 80, Once a given aspect of nature, quiet is facing extinction. 

p. 84, The lack of cell service created a greater sense of self-reliance, but also of reciprocity.




The Secret of the Old Clock, written by Carolyn Keene

One of the book categories on a reading challenge I'm doing is "a childhood favorite". I loved the Nancy Drew series as a kid, so I read the first one this month. I hadn't remembered that Bess and George, two friends who help her solve mysteries, weren't in this first book and it was interesting to notice how much the formality of language has changed since the book's publication in 1930 and revision in 1959. In this novel, eighteen year old Nancy is determined to prove that the will of a recently deceased man is not his latest will, a discovery which would improve the lives of people the man cared about and upset some greedy relatives. I chose this book for the "childhood favorite" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year.




The Thursday Murder Club, written by Richard Osman

Four residents of a retirement community take time each week to discuss cold cases together, just for fun. Then someone with professional ties to their community is murdered, followed by another murdered on the property, so they set to work trying to figure out who's responsible for the killings. They banter, play off each other's strengths, and figure out how to keep the police department on their side, even when their club is breaking protocol and laws. I chose this book for the "mystery novel" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year.

p. 125, It's great to be the fastest runner, but not when you're running in the wrong direction.



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Thursday, January 26, 2023

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for hoodies. What's something that you're thankful for?

Friday, January 20, 2023

1/20/23 - WORTH REPEATING

First, being present. Which I get, it's like, kind of overused these days. But for me, being present means caring so much about the thing you're doing or the person you're with that you stop caring about all the other things you need to do. And it's essential in delivering unreasonable hospitality. See, so often we have such long to-do lists that we aren't able to slow down enough to actually listen to the people around us, to the things they're saying and all the things they're not saying.

Will Guidara // The Secret Ingredients of Great Hospitality // TED Talks


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It does not take a big budget to start infusing this into your culture, because remember, it's not the cost of the gesture that matters. It's how it makes people feel. 

Will Guidara // The Secret Ingredients of Great Hospitality // TED Talks

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Marriage means responsibility. 

~ Victor Moore as Aloysius T. McKeever // It Happened on 5th Avenue


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A house, any house, is only what its occupants make it.  

~ Victor Moore as Aloysius T. McKeever // It Happened on 5th Avenue


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Here’s the thing. In Revelations, it says to us that there will be worshipers in Heaven from every tribe, language, nation and people group. To me, I don’t take that lightly. And so my point there is if we really want to have a more accurate picture of who God is, then we need to be more intimately engaged with all God’s people. And I think one of the things in the West, we’ve crippled ourself and our own discipleship because our pride helps us to think that we, because we have more money, we have more education, we have more power, we can dictate to everyone else who God is and how we should respond to God and what God is like. 

But the irony to that to me is that the number of people that are considering themselves people of faith, or going to church, particularly as Christians is declining in the United States. That is not the case in Asia. It’s not the case in Africa. So I think there’s a certain amount of humility is required to say, what can we learn from the global church? What can we learn from all God’s people, people from every tribe, language, nations and people group?

~ Natasha Sistrunk Robinson // Voices of Lament with Natasha Sistrunk Robinson and Mariah Humphries // Emily P. Freeman's The Next Right Thing



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Thursday, January 19, 2023

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for all the snowflakes, both flat and 3D, my family made on the first day of winter, which are still hanging throughout our home. What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Monday, January 16, 2023

BARGAIN BUYS

Ten days ago I bought this table from Woodburn ReStore for three bucks. Originally $15, then $10, then $7, then $5, I'd seen it marked down to $3 a week earlier, but wasn't sure if I wanted to get it. It was still there when I went back, so loaded it up and brought it home. Near our fire pit, it will be put to good use as a s'mores station for people assembling their treats. 


Today I stopped by Ray of Hope and saw this pie pan. I adore white dishes, but almost never buy them because I don't like having a bunch of stuff that won't earn the space it takes. I already have deep dish stoneware pie pan, plus a couple shallow glass ones that Tim uses, so I didn't need this at all. But I made an impulse purchase and spent $.74 on it anyway. I love it! I'll use it for pies, but I also plan on using it as a serving platter for all sorts of other things. 


Friday, January 13, 2023

TEETH & HAIR

Tyler lost his last baby tooth yesterday, which prompted him to declare that he's a man now. I'm not so sure about that statement, but it is the first time in twenty years we haven't had any baby teeth in our household.


Tim wanted Naomi to give him a haircut, but she'd never done a fade before. She watched a brief tutorial on YouTube, then he talked her through the process. 


 

Thursday, January 12, 2023

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for the generosity of a little W who offered to buy hot dogs for the three of us who were leaving Costco at lunch time. What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Thursday, January 5, 2023

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for extended family. What's one thing that you're thankful for?