Wednesday, May 31, 2023

BOOKS I FINISHED - MAY 2023


The Goldfish Boy, written by Lisa Thompson

A boy whose OCD has led him to stay isolated in his bedroom, missing school and avoiding all physical contact with people while suffering pain from hands damaged by excessive washing, ends up being the ideal person to figure out where the two year old who went missing from the neighbor's yard might be. I chose this book for the "book with the letter Y somewhere in the title" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year.




The Knowledge of the Holy, written by A.W. Tozer

Tozer points the reader to attributes of God through both their descriptions and by how those attributes impact the life of one who believes God. Chapter topics include attributes such as God's self-sufficiency, wisdom, justice, and mercy. I chose this book for the "e-book" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year, but I read this pdf version with different page numbering (and lots of typos, in case that will distract you). 

ETA: I originally chose this book for the "book on theology" category of a reading challenge I'm doing this year, but I read When God Came Near, written by Max Lucado, in August, and decided to use it instead. Now this book is being used for my "e-book" category as that's the format I read it in.

p. 4, A right conception of God is basic not only to systematic theology but to practical Christian living as well. It is to worship what the foundation is to the temple; where it is inadequate or out of plumb the whole structure must sooner or later collapse.

p. 20, "What possible meaning can the self-existence of God have for me and others like me in a world such as this and in times such as these?

To this I reply that, because we are the handiwork of God, it follows that all our problems and their solutions are theological. Some knowledge of what kind of God it is that operates the universe is indispensable to a sound philosophy of life and a sane outlook on the world scene.

p. 28, ... an attempt was made to slay a truth to keep it quiet lest it appear as a material witness against an error.

p. 37, In this world, where men forget us, change their attitude toward us as their private interests dictate, and revise their opinions of us for the slightest cause, is it not a source of wondrous strength to know that the God with whom we have to do changes not? That His attitude toward us now is the same as it was in eternity past and will be in eternity to come?

p. 43, We rest in what God is. I believe that this alone is true faith. Any faith that must be supported by the evidence of the senses is not real faith.

p. 47, Science observes how the power of God operates, discovers a regular pattern somewhere and fixes it as "law". The uniformity of God's activities in His creation enables the scientist to predict the course of natural phenomena. The trustworthiness of God's behavior in His world is the foundation of all scientific truth.

p. 61, No attribute of God is in conflict with another. God's compassion flows out of his goodness, and goodness without justice is not goodness. 

p. 66, The spring of Christian morality is the love of Christ, not the law of Moses.

p. 69, Yet if we would know God and for other's sake tell what we know, we must try to speak of His love. All Christians have tried, but none has ever done it very well. I can no more do justice to that awesome and wonder-filled theme than a child can grasp a star. Still, by reaching toward the star the child may call attention to it and even indicate the direction one must look to see it. So, as I stretch my heart toward the high, shilling love of God, someone who has not before known about it maybe encouraged to look up and have hope.

p. 76, A God less than sovereign could not bestow moral freedom upon His creatures. He would be afraid to do so. 




The Necklace, written by Cheryl Jarvis

This book was the May part of a year-long gift from a friend, one book to unwrap and read each month. I'd actually read it before, a random pull from the library shelves more than a decade ago. I recommended it to my book-giving friend last year, then she gave it to me. I remember liking the book, but couldn't recall any of the details and enjoyed reading it again. I also chose this book for the "book that inspires you" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year. What I said about it back in 2012 is still accurate, so I'll copy it. 

It's the true story of thirteen women who joined together to buy and share a diamond necklace that was worth $37,000. I love the novelty of the idea, the variety of reasons the women joined the group, how their project brought them closer, how they worked through the conflicts it created, and the ways they've used the necklace to bless other people in a variety of ways.

Please note the page numbers are from a large print edition. 

p. 171, Generosity isn't just about giving money; it's giving of yourself, your time, your words.

p. 224, In the past, Priscilla had always thought that the smarter and more successful you were, the more you didn't need other people, the more you could do it all yourself. Priscilla had never asked anyone for anything. Now she was starting to think differently. Maybe the smarter you were, the sooner you recognized you were in trouble and asked for help.





Philomena, written by Martin Sixsmith

I saw the corresponding movie about Michael Hess and Philomena Lee in 2015, but didn't know that the time that a book had come first. Here's what I said back then.

This movie is about the true story of a woman who became pregnant while young and unmarried, was sent to a convent by her parents during her pregnancy, and eventually had her son placed for adoption without her consent. She then spent fifty years looking for him, eventually finding answers to her questions with the help of a journalist. It's not really a "happily ever after" kind of movie, but I liked it because I think it's important for all of us to remember that we never know someone's whole story. We don't know what they've experienced, all their hurts and losses, the courage and forgiveness they've chosen or anger and bitterness they've clung to, the kinds of people who matter to them ... so we need to be kind.

Heads up for those it will matter to if they read the book, there were several parts that I skipped over because there was more information about his sexuality than I needed to know in order to appreciate the story. I chose this book for the "book that's been made into a movie" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year.




Sarah's Key, written by Tatiana De Rosnay and translated from French

This novel is about a French girl and her parents who are arrested by the local police during the Vel' d'Hiv Roundup in 1942, an actual event I didn't know about until reading this story. Thinking they'd be back soon, she locks her younger brother in a deep cabinet to keep him safe. It's also about a woman who's assigned to write a magazine article about the horrific event, discovers a personal tie to the French girl from 60 years earlier, and becomes determined to find out all she can about her. I chose this book for the "foreign book translated into English" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year.





This is the fascinating true story of Christopher Knight, a man who somewhat spontaneously walked into the woods at twenty years old and lived in isolation there for twenty-seven years. He'd spoken one word to a person in nearly three decades and hadn't had any physical contact with anyone. Then one night he got caught stealing food from a camp and his whole world changed. I chose this book for the "book from the 2017 Good Reads Choice Awards" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year.

p. 109, He was never once bored. He wasn't sure, he said, that he even understood the concept of boredom. It applied only to people who felt they had to be doing something all the time, which from what he'd observed was most people. 

p. 109, The weak do not survive, and neither do the strong. Life is a constant, merciless fight that everyone loses. 

p. 136, After ten days in solitary confinement, many prisoners display clear signs of mental harm, and one study showed that about a third will eventually develop active psychosis. There are at least eighty thousand such inmates in America. The United Nations has determined that holding a person in isolation for more than fifteen days is cruel and inhuman punishment. 

p. 166, "And what about a text message? Isn't that just using a telephone as a telegraph? We're going backwards."




No Summit out of Sight: The True Story of the Youngest Person to Climb the Seven Summits
, written by Jordan Romero with Linda LeBlanc

Jordan decided at nine years old that he wanted to climb the highest mountains on each continent. With the help and support of family, friends, his community, and sponsors, he was able to reach that goal at fifteen years old. I chose this book for the "book already in your bookshelf" category of a book challenge I'm doing this year.


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Tuesday, May 30, 2023

PUZZLES I FINISHED - MAY 2023


Noah's Ark Under the Sea - Artist: Eric Dowdle - Dowdle Folk Art - 1,000 pieces (missing 1)

We've done this puzzle a few times and I love the variety of sea creatures. 


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Thursday, May 25, 2023

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for the colors blue and green. What's something that you're thankful for?

Thursday, May 18, 2023

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful Naomi's been willing to French braid my hair a couple times this week. What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Thursday, May 11, 2023

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for the sounds and smells coming through the open windows of people's homes when I go on walks. What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Tuesday, May 9, 2023

5/9/23 - WORTH REPEATING

Hurt and hope can co-exist. 

~ Toni Collier // Discovering Hope & Healing After Brokenness // The Crystal Paine Show

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One doesn't have to operate with great malice to do great harm. The absence of empathy and understanding are sufficient. 

~ Charles M. Blow // unknown context // quoted on Facebook

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Content people may not have the best of everything, but they MAKE the best of everything.

~ Dave Ramsey // Dave Ramsey Facebook page

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Between the great things we cannot do and the small things we will not do, the danger is that we shall do nothing.

~ Adolphe Monod


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Happiness doesn’t arise from making everything in our lives perfect. It comes from embracing life as it is and finding small moments of gratitude, joy, kindness, beauty, and human connection within it. By truly being present for those moments and being grateful for them, we find so much joy and the resilience to weather life’s storms.

~ Nataly Kogan // A Case for Enjoying Little Moments, Even When Life Sucks // Simplify Magazine, March 2019, quoted in the 4/10/23 Simplify Magazine Inspiration e-mail 

Thursday, May 4, 2023

TRELLIS TIME

One year ago I asked for suggestions on FB for how to add some visual balance to the empty space on the left of the chimney. I decided I wanted to install a trellis and came up with a tentative plan, but just haven't gotten around to doing it. 

Last Friday we were in Medford and I shared my plan with Dad to get his input. He suggested an alternative plan that would be lighter and more stable, then offered to come up and do it for me. There's no way I'd turn down that offer! 

He e-mailed me that night with a list of measurements he needed, but we were out of town until Saturday night. I was mostly unplugged on Sunday and was away from home when I read his message, so I didn't get numbers to him until Monday. He built the trellis on Tuesday, then drove up yesterday to install it. Wasn't that kind of him?

Dad had Naomi and Tyler crunch some numbers with him soon after arriving, then we headed outside. 


We were mostly there for moral support and to pretend like we're useful, but we did hand him things as he needed them.



Here's what the finished job looks like today with some baby vines planted underneath. 


The kids and I had to leave for a while yesterday, so Dad finished installing the trellis while we were gone. It was a little jarring to come back and see something attached to the house. It's just so big. I'd given measurements that synced up with the window on the opposite side of the chimney, but didn't think about how the trellis would appear bigger because it's extended from the siding. It may take a little while to get used to, but I love it. I can't wait to see the wood weather a bit and become covered with beautiful flowers. I'll have to share a picture later in the summer when it's filled in and the roses on the opposite side have gotten bigger. As for now, I already have another wall that I'm thinking of adding a trellis to. 

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful that my gum grafts were successful and that recovery was a breeze. What's something you're thankful for?