Friday, June 30, 2023

BOOKS I FINISHED - JUNE 2023


Hyperbole and a Half: Unfortunate Situations, Flawed Coping Mechanisms, Mayhem, and Other Things That Happened, written and illustrated by Allie Brosh

I discovered Brosh way back in 2010 when she wrote a funny post inspired by people who write "alot" instead of "a lot". A couple years later she wrote a post about depression that was relatable and funny, both in text and illustrations. I appreciate people who can be funny while sharing about their struggle with mental health, especially since I've struggled with depression for a long time. I chose this book for the "makes you laugh out loud" category of a reading challenge I'm doing this year. Heads up that there's a fair amount of language in the book, as I know that's a deal-breaker for some people.

p. 101 (the quote I wrote down from her 2012 depression post, which is also in this book) But trying to use willpower to overcome the apathetic sort of sadness that accompanies depression is like a person with no arms trying to punch themselves until their hands grow back. A fundamental component of the plan is missing and it isn't going to work.

p. 229, Imagine a grizzly bear. Now imagine that by some accident of nature, the bear sprouts wings and learns how to use a flamethrower. That would be a really unfair thing to have happen. Bears are already powerful enough without those things. 

Similarly, children are already annoying enough without access to a toy that will record and repeat any sound in the entire world. 

p. 277, When something feels unfair, there's an implication that an equal and opposite fair thing could have happened instead.

But my rules don't account for that. I just make them up and expect them to be followed without considering how that is supposed to work. 

p. 281, I don't like when I can't control what reality is doing. Which is unfortunate because reality works independently of the things I want, and I have only a limited number of ways to influence it, none of which are guaranteed to work. 

p. 334, The fact that I think about doing nice things feels almost like actually doing them. I get to feel all the good feelings without any of the inconvenience. It's disgusting how proud of myself I am for things I've never done. 




My Lucky Life In and Out of Show Business, written by Dick Van Dyke

Van Dyke is a man whose talent and humility is loved by millions. In this book he shares how he came to be in show business, glimpses behind the scenes of various performances on stage and screen, his commitment to only performing in roles he'd feel comfortable having his kids watch with him, and the ups and downs of his personal life. I chose this book for the "celebrity memoir" category of a reading challenge I'm doing this year.

p. 217, In my early fifties, I was going through a phase where few things felt right and I was trying to figure out those that did. It was not uncommon. In your twenties, you pursue your dreams. By your late thirties and early forties, you hit a certain stride. Then you hit your fifties, you get your first annoying thoughts of mortality, you begin more serious questioning of not just the meaning of your life but of what's working, what's not working, and what you still want, and all of a sudden you don't know which way is up. You thought you knew but don't. You  just want to get to where life feels okay again.


Just As I Am: The Autobiography of Billy Graham, written by Billy Graham

Graham recounts several decades of life and ministry - childhood and teen years, attending different Bible schools as a young adult, personal relationships with multiple presidents, descriptions of crusades all around the world, his family, and lessons he's learned along the way. I strongly dislike name-dropping, so I appreciate the humility with which he describes his many encounters with various dignitaries and celebrities. He also speaks respectfully about the various individuals and cultures he's interacted with, regardless of whether he shared their political stance, religious beliefs, and so on.

This book was the June part of a year-long gift from a friend, one book to unwrap and read each month. 
I chose this book for the "with over 600 pages" category of a reading challenge I'm doing this year. I'd previously used Oldest Living Confederate Widow Tells All for that category back in March, but now I'm switching that one to the "book with a six word title" category. 

p. 47, He did not dictate how to think and what to do; rather, he opened my thinking to consider the perfect trustworthiness of God, and to rest in that.

p. 57, Ordination did not elevate me to superiority over my fellow Christians who sat in the pews and listened, even if I stood in a high pulpit. On the contrary, it specially designated me to be their servant, their shepherd, for Christ's sake. It was meant to nurture me in humility, not pride. 

p. 108 (quoting his wife, Ruth) "I think sometimes it is easier to drive ourselves to actual death than it is to take ourselves firmly in hand and make ourselves do the wise thing," she wrote from home. "Without sounding funny, it is better to rest awhile above the earth than to rest forever beneath it."

p. 168, "This has been an age in which we have humanized God and deified man, and we have worshiped at the throne of science."

p. 204, Peace between nations depends on goodwill between individuals.

p. 204, The only hope for finding common ground among Christians of diverse backgrounds and viewpoints was to focus on the Word of God, the ultimate authority for our faith.

p. 527, "The greatest need in the world," I said, "is the transformation of human nature. We need a new heart that will not have lust and greed and hate in it. We need a heart filled with love and peace and joy, and that is why Jesus came into the world." 



The Madness of Crowds, written by Louise Penny

A controversial professor. An attempted murder at one event and a successful one at another. A tangled web of personal and professional connections, both past and present. I chose this book for the "chosen solely by its cover" category of a reading challenge I'm doing this year. It's the 17th in an 18 book series, but can be read on its own. 

p. 63, "There are," said the Chief, unbothered and undeterred by what what he'd just heard, "four sentences that lead to wisdom. Do with them as you will."

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"'I'm sorry.' 'I was wrong.' ' I don't know.'" As he listed them, Chief Inspector Gamache raised a finger until his palm was open. "I need help."

p. 134, The trick wasn't necessarily having less fear, it was finding more courage.

p. 191, If you want an idea to flourish, the best fertilizer is the body of a a martyr. 

p. 205, "It's about what happens when gullibility and fear meet greed and power."

"Nothing good? said Armand, with a small smile. 

p. 255, Through his infant son, Jean-Guy discovered that libraries hold treasures. Not just the written word, but things that couldn't be seen. Like le Petit Prince said, in the book Jean-Guy had first read as he'd read it to Honore.

What is essential is invisible to the eye.

Knowledge, ideas, thoughts. Imagination. All invisible. All lived in libraries. 




The Tuscan Child, written by Rhys Bowen

A woman in her mid-twenties is in the midst of personal trauma and major life changes when she discovers that her recently deceased dad had a secret love and life that she knew nothing about. Told in alternating time periods, this is the story of a British pilot in WWII who parachutes out of his plane before it crashes in Tuscany and his daughter who's trying to answer questions about him a few decades later. I chose this book for the "set in a country you want to visit" category of a reading challenge I'm doing this year.




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Thursday, June 29, 2023

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for cultural passes from libraries that allow people to visit places without paying the required admission fee. What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Thursday, June 22, 2023

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful that Devon fixed some squeaky doors. What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Thursday, June 15, 2023

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for the roses growing in our yard. What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Thursday, June 8, 2023

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for conversations with people I've never met, whether on a walk, at church, or out and about. What's something you're thankful for?

Thursday, June 1, 2023

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for the mix of cool and hot days this time of year. What's something that you're thankful for?