Wednesday, June 30, 2021

BOOKS I FINISHED - JUNE 2021


Things We Didn't Say, written by Amy Lynn Green

Written as a collection of letters between various characters of the story, this novel is about a young woman whose plans for the future are thwarted when she ends up working as a translator for German POWs in her hometown. Eventually accused of treason, the collection of letters the book is compiled of is the evidence she presents to prove her innocence. 

p. 23, Real life is dreadfully tedious, the way it interrupts reading.

p. 77, I give you this caution: Luther was old when he wrote those thoughts, and deeply pained from numerous chronic illnesses. His frustration was compounded by years of unsuccessful attempts to convert Jewish audiences. That's not to excuse his harsh views, you understand. 

Or perhaps it is. Perhaps I worry that in my later years, I will begin to calcify into bitterness, looking at the failed aspects of my ministry and spewing ill-considered words that will become part of my legacy.

Should that happen, I hope someone would reason with me, or even gently guide me away from the pulpit, dearly as I love it. That would be better than leading my flock astray at the end. Will you remember that please?

p. 89, (speaking of Works of Love, written by Soren Kierkegaard) In it, you'll find this passage: "Men think that it is impossible for a human being to love his enemies, for enemies are hardly able to endure the sight of one another. Well, then, shut your eyes - and your enemy looks just like your neighbor." Wise words for us in these difficult times. 

p. 106, How much of us is deliberate choice, and how much is society and conditioning and circumstances?

p. 141, I don't know if you are a religious man, Major, but I'll share with you a secret that isn't often preached from the pulpits: Sometimes showing grace breaks us before it heals us. Forgiveness can feel like a betrayal of justice. We want others to deserve grace, or at least ask for it, even knowing full well that the greatest grace was extended to us "when we were enemies".

p. 142, We are called to obey and forgive and love, even when we can't see the outcome of our choices.

p. 152, The government is made up of people, and people are inclined to trust what they feel they know and understand most.

p. 161, Is that comforting? It has been for me, sometimes, to think that we make choices and learn and grow, but that we're put in the places and with the people we are for a reason.

p. 177, "Johanna, no one is a hooligan," Mother said primly, pulling out of the middle of the road.  "Or at least not just a hooligan. They are brothers and sons and probably some hapless women's future husbands. More important, they have reasons for all they do that we'll likely never know."

p. 178, I'm afraid that at times I've dismissed my mother, who married at nineteen, raised two daughters, and never seemed to want more out of life than a quiet existence knitting, supporting Dad, and perfecting her smothered pork chop recipe. It's in times like these that I realize she's a stronger woman than I'll ever be.

p. 183, Whoever thought of making old unfashionable had a head for business, and that's a fact.

p. 193, That's a roundabout way of reassuring you that you can make a difference. You already are. There's not much hope of you single-handedly removing prejudice against Japanese Americans or making other systemic changes, but systems are made up of people, and if you can change a few people, that amounts to something.

p. 195, The question is, Who are you when you don't have a law telling you what to do? How do you treat a man you hate when you know he can't fight back?

Think about it. Right now, even.

p. 258, The past is never in the past, not for countries, and not for individuals. But we have to have the courage to move beyond it.

p. 377, God was in all the ways I've seen others care and challenge and stand by me this past year.

p. 385, After the Crash, I decided it would be more worthwhile to invest in young lives than in stock. Greater return on investment, you know.

p. 387, After all that's happened, I'd be grateful to leave the whispers and mistrust that follow me around, but I find that I'm not as bitter as I once was. I've seen the best and the worst of this little town, and I've realized it's made up of people with their own prejudices and priorities and hopes and fears - just like me. We're all just fallible people trying desperately to make sense of an incomprehensibly complex world. I don't want to forget that. 

p. 390, "We can easily hurt others, and once we do, there's no escaping each other. Forgiveness is all that keeps us together, and withholding it keeps us apart". 


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Thursday, June 24, 2021

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for an occasional afternoon nap. What's something you're thankful for?

Sunday, June 20, 2021

FATHER'S DAY - 2021

We lucked out and saw Silas as soon as we arrived at church this morning, so we were able to take a couple quick Father's Day pictures before we all went our separate ways during the service. I know we're not guaranteed pictures with all our kids on these parenting holidays as they start to move out, but it's cool that it worked out for this first year of only three kids living at home. Tim and the original little Ws huddled for one shot.


And then another with Natie, the very first holiday picture where she's officially part of our family. So cool!


Although Mother's Day and Father's Day aren't about Tim and I as a couple, I decided to take a picture of us together on Mother's Day because I wouldn't be a mom without him. So I also got one of us today, as he wouldn't be a dad without me. 


Tim's always taken fatherhood seriously. Not that he's always serious (plenty of goofball evidence to the contrary), but he understands the significance of the role and strives to do the best he can. I really appreciate his commitment to the little Ws!

Thursday, June 17, 2021

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for hot air balloons floating near my neighborhood when I go out for a morning run. What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Wednesday, June 16, 2021

THE KINDNESS TREE


I don't remember exactly how old I was, but at least eight and probably no older than ten. Mom was running errands with my brother, sister, and I when we drove past this tree. Down at the base, sitting under the shelter of the branches, was a woman who'd done her best to protect herself from the elements with a plastic sheet of some sort. 

"She's been there all night. That plastic means she was there when it rained during the night." That's what Mom said. What she did was turn around, go the bakery in the shopping center we'd just left, buy a cup of coffee, and deliver it to the woman who'd spent a cold, rainy night wrapped in a tarp under a tree. 

Decades have past since then, but I still think of those few minutes of my life every single time I pass this tree. 

None of us can solve all the world's problems. None of us can single-handedly fix even one individual person's problems. But we can all look for opportunities to quietly and humbly show kindness to someone who could use it. 

Sunday, June 13, 2021

REMEMBERING WAYNE


Wayne and I were just acquaintances, really. Two people who, along with our spouses, met over dinner at a marriage retreat with our church several years ago. An unexpected conversation with his wife in March about my battle against depression led to more frequent interaction with the two of them over the next couple months. I'm grateful for that extra connection in what none of us knew were his last days.

Here are the things that stand out to me today, the day after his memorial service, as I think about what I saw of him in person and what I've heard from others since his death.

* Smile. Just smile. And do it often.

* Be kind. To everyone. No matter what.

* Serve others. It's good for them. It's good for you.

* Know and love Jesus. It makes it easier to know and love other people.

* Share meals with the people in your life. And share Oreos.

I'll end with this quote from the back of the memorial service program. It's the kind of behavior we always want to be on the receiving end of, but generally aren't as consistently enthusiastic about being on the giving end of.

"I loved how he was always making me feel like a very important person ... no matter what."

Thursday, June 10, 2021

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for Devon's friend that drove quite a distance to help when Devon's battery died several days ago, the neighbor that gave Devon a jump when his battery died yesterday, and for the friend who helped him last night to fix the problem that kept draining the battery. What's something that you're thankful for?