Friday, November 8, 2019

HALLOWEEN - 2019

I just have a few pictures from Halloween this year. 

Devon's been working for a local couple since August 2018. Not only do they treat him really well, but they do things like buy giant candy bars for all the little Ws on Halloween. So thoughtful!


The Tylers had a blast hanging out together at our church's Harvest Festival.


I didn't know Silas was dressing up for the harvest festival until I arrived with the bandana he'd forgotten and asked me to bring. I also didn't know youth ministry staff was going to have a Toy Story theme going on with their costumes. They all looked great, but Woody/Silas and Jessie/Natie were my favorite.


Tim wasn't able to make it this year, but all the other Ws enjoyed our evening working and playing at the harvest festival and I think the last of the candy will finally get eaten today.

Thursday, November 7, 2019

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for the neighbor who chose to join us as we worked in our yard and ended up raking tons of leaves off our driveway. What's one thing you're thankful for?

Saturday, November 2, 2019

BOOKS I FINISHED - OCTOBER 2019

*****

The Castle Diary: The Journal of Tobias Burgess, written by Richard Platt & illustrated by  Chris Riddell
The fictional story of a young boy who lives with his aunt and uncle for a year as a page, this book is filled with all sorts of info about what life was like in the middle ages. I've read this book four times for school, including this time with Tyler, and I always love the illustrations.


*****

Choosing Gratitude: Your Journey to Joy, written by Nancy Leigh DeMoss
I regularly look for the positive things in my life, but I'm also very critical by nature and slide into bitterness pretty easily. This book really challenged me in the area of being thankful, driving home both the importance of gratitude and the danger of ingratitude. I'm currently in the process of doing the 30 day gratitude study at the end of the book.

p. 17, Even in the most turbulent waters, choosing gratitude rescues me from myself and my runaway emotions.

p. 23, Try being a person who sacrificially gives of yourself - without the offering being accompanied by gratitude - and you'll find every ounce of joy drained by a martyr complex.

p. 35, Undeniable guilt, plus undeserved grace, should equal unbridled gratitude.

p. 68, The grateful heart that springs forth in joy is not acquired in a moment; it is the fruit of a thousand choices.

p. 82, Pride is the father of ingratitude and the silent killer of gratitude.

p. 126, But out in the byway of real life, a grateful heart must often strap on sword and shield, summon up its deepest courage, and brace itself for battle.

p. 139, Unwilling to stay mindful of the blessings we enjoy in spite of our difficulties, as well as the strength and sensitivity God grows beset in us through hardship and loss, we sacrifice peace. We sacrifice contentment. We sacrifice relationships -  and freedom and grace and joy.


*****

Ugly, written by Robert Hoge
Hoge was born with a giant tumor in the middle of his face, as well as disfigured legs, and the surgery that removed the tumor left him with a radically disfigured face. This book is his story of growing up ugly, learning to be confident in who he is.


*****

The Wake Up, written by Catherine Ryan Hyde
A rancher suddenly find himself unable to to do anything that inflicts pain on animals, whether the deer he goes out hunting for or his own cattle, because he physically feels their pain. Soon he finds himself feeling what the people around him are feeling. As he struggles with this profound empathy, he finds himself falling in love with a single mom of two kids, one with some major struggles of his own. With therapy, commitment, and time, healing comes to those who are hurting.

p. 236, "I know you don't have a lot of parenting experience," Hannah said. "So let me lay my thoughts out for you like this. You hope for the best for your kids. You want them to be happy, and you want to feel close to them and help them. So when you see them moving in what you think is a good direction, or think you see it, you hope. You hope wildly. And, as a result, having a child tends to mean getting your heart broken on a regular basis. It takes courage to hope for something you know you may not get. But the alternative is not to believe in your child or hope great things for him. So I'm a big fan of the heartbreak method myself."


*****

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Thursday, October 31, 2019

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for a stash of oatmeal pancakes in the freezer. What's something you're thankful for?

Monday, October 28, 2019

OCTOBER THOUGHTS


October is winding down and I'm realizing how much of this month I've spent thinking about last October. It was a bit of an emotional roller coaster. In no particular order -

* Made special, lifetime memories. 
* Enjoyed the season of marriage we were in. 
* Hit an emotional and mental low. 
* Quit a part-time job I wanted to keep. 
* Experienced deep hurt. 
* Adjusted to Tim's career change. 
* Entered uncharted parenting territory. 
* Started a slow process of personal growth in some specific areas.

There's one side of this reminiscing that's not helpful, the part where I haven't seen as much progress as I'd like in certain things and get discouraged.  But the other side has been good, the part where I can evaluate where things are and choose to keep moving forward.

Life is filled with highs and lows, right? My tendency is to be overwhelmed by the lows, to feel hopeless when positive change is beyond my control, and to get frustrated with myself when I struggle to get over something negative. I hit a rough patch in relationships, circumstances, or my own sin and forget all that's true and good. 

* That rough patches are unavoidable.
* That I can have peace in the midst of life's challenges. 
* That I'm making progress, even if it's ridiculously slow and filled with failure. 
* That God's love for me doesn't hinge on my behavior or mental health. 

So, here's to another year of growth. To being more secure in who I am in Christ and less bothered by my own imperfect humanity. To gratitude, love, humility, trust, and forgiveness. To focusing my attention on what matters most to me and letting the rest go.

And, no, the picture has nothing to do with the post. It's just one I took on Friday while I hung out all by myself in the van, reading a book and looking up the Bible verses it mentioned, exchanging Facebook messages with a close friend, and waiting for the bi-annual clothing exchange I've attended for over a decade to get started. Documenting ordinary life. 

Thursday, October 24, 2019

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for chapstick. What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Tuesday, October 22, 2019

SISTERS' WEEKEND - 2019


Last year Beep and I used my home as a base for some adventures around Portland together, but this year we both got away from home for a low-key sisters' weekend.

* stayed in a cheerful little cottage filled with eclectic art
* ate warm soup on a rainy night
* had leisurely mornings
* hunkered down to read our own copies of Choosing Gratitude: Your Journey to Joy
* went for walks around town
* given fig freezer jam from our host, made that day from figs off her own tree
* wore matching "Sisters, Sisters ..." hats from Rogue Wear
* visited a variety of antique, retro, and gift shops - Coburg Antique & Vintage Mall - both buildings, Design Works, Farm Fancy, Gracie Maxwell, Retro Rejuvenation
* decided to visit Coburg Pizza Company, played with View Masters while we waited for our food, and got more than we paid for because they accidentally made us a large pizza instead of a small one
* had conversations about life, God, personality types, and house styles we like

Such a great way to spend a couple of days!

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