Saturday, August 16, 2008

SO VERY THANKFUL

Let me start this off by saying that everyone in our family is fine right now. We had a near tragedy last night, but I want to make sure you read this with the understanding that there was a happy ending.

I am typing this post from a hospital where we spent the night with Silas. Just before dinner last night he drowned. He was at the bottom of a pool, not breathing, and without a heartbeat. Tim pulled him from the water and began CPR. My dad quickly joined in giving CPR. My stepsister called an ambulance. My dad's wife gathered up Devon and Naomi and took care of them.

When Tim began CPR there was no heartbeat. None. After doing CPR for a while, Tim felt a heartbeat. Then Silas started breathing. He puked. He cried. Never before have puke and tears been such a great thing to witness.

Because chest compressions were given, the paramedics transported us to the hospital to get Silas checked out. That's when we found out there was some fluid in his lungs and they needed to keep him overnight to monitor him. As of now, at 7:30am, he is asleep. His vitals are good. His lungs have improved. The doctor will make rounds sometime between 8 and 9. We're hoping to be discharged at that time. Otherwise we sit around til evening rounds and try again. It looks like we'll be able to leave, but we don't know for sure.

We made it through the critical 8-12 hour period after the drowning without any problems. Now the main risk is for pneumonia, which would only happen if any of that pool water in his lungs formed some bacteria before being absorbed by his body. If that happens, then it would be in the next week or so.

I realize some people will wonder how he ended up at the bottom of the pool, but it doesn't really matter. We're focusing on the fact that he's alive, not how he almost died.

We are very thankful to still be the 5 Ws.

UPDATE: You can read my my dad's version of the drowning here and my description of some of the silver linings here.

38 comments:

Unknown said...

Praise God! Oh, Bethany, I'm in tears, happy tears that Silas is fine! Great big hugs for you and Tim!

Jess Connell said...

Wow, wow, WOW, Bethany! Praise God that he's OK and that all seems to be well after such a scary situation.

I'm thankful, too, that you're still the 5 W's.

Unknown said...

Oh, praise Jesus! For finding him in time, for Tim and your Dad knowing CPR, for little Silas being such a fighter and making it out okay! Oh Bethany, I can't imagine what you guys have been through in the last 12 hours. Silas will be in our prayers throughout the day- I can't wait to see him running around at church again soon. Nothing like close calls to realize how valuable and fragile life is. We love you guys.

Anonymous said...

Oh Bethany...just so thankful your little Silas is ok...praising God today and rejoicing with you..and praying he continues to heal up well!

Heidi said...

((((((((((((((Ws))))))))))))))))

Andrea said...

Oh Bethany....What a terrible time for all of you...

I am just going to believe and pray for no lingering side effects for ANY of you....

The stress of an event like that can be very difficult to deal with...

Mary Lou said...

Thank you Lord for your perfect timing and your mercies that you so generously poured out on Silas, Bethany and Tim! I pray that you will continue to use this miracle for your glory!

Merry said...

Oh my goodness Bethany, how scary!! I'm praising God that your dear Silas is alive, I'm so, so happy for all of you that he's going to be ok. ((((Hugs))))

Mama in Uganda said...

Praying in Uganda. May the Lord wrap His arms around you all. And may your minds rest on that which is good, lovely and true...

Leslie said...

Crying & praising God with you that Silas is still with you. May He be glorified for His mercy & grace!

It could have been any of our children at the bottom of that pool; don't allow any of the devil's guilt to be piled on top of the stress of Silas' health. (((hugs))), my friend! (you have to know I love you, that I got up this early on a SATURDAY to get online & see if there was any news!)

Rachelle said...

Wow, what an amazing God we have! We just learned pool cpr last night in swim class so it makes it all the more real.

We are so thankful for you guys and your family, we will keep you guys in our prayers.

Natalie said...

We are praying for Silas and your family.

Anonymous said...

We will be praying for all of you. May Silas rebound and you all be home this afternoon. My family and I live in Beaverton. I have been reading your blog from Sonlight and have wanted to introduce myself. Not the best way to do it, but wanted you to know we are praying.

Steffi Webb

steffi@clanwebb.com

Laura said...

Oh Bethany... I don't have adequate words right now, just lots of tears.
All I can do is focus on the happy ending. Praise the Lord for His protection over Silas.
We will be praying for no side effects and for a full and speedy recovery.
We also pray for the Lord to hold your sweet family tightly in His loving arms as you recover from this.

We love you!!

Chloe said...

Praising God with you and your family. I went to bed not knowing how this would turn out and I'm SOOOOOOO grateful that your Silas is safe and sound. Do not accept any guilt or blame...accidents happen and that's the way life is!!!

Anonymous said...

Oh Bethany, I gasped as I read this this morning. Praise the Lord that Silas is OK. I will be praying for a full and speedy recovery. Love ya chica. ((((((Bethany)))))

Michele said...

Wow Thinking about you and your Family. We are praying for you and your hearts!! May God be with you all right now!!

Anonymous said...

Bethany,

I am so happy to hear that Silas is alive!! Praising God with you!

Big hugs to you sister!

Leslie (MLS)

Hook House said...

I couldn't even imagine! Praise the Lord that he is ok and that Tim and your dad know CPR! I will be praying that things will only get better and he will not get sick.

Tanya said...

Oh my word oh my word oh my word.........Bethany......I am SO thankful that your little man is ok!!!!!!! I'll be praying for you guys!!!!

Unknown said...

Found this link through the sonlight boards...

Thanks be to the Lord!

So glad to hear that your Silas is well!

Praying for you still.

Jules said...

Praising God for your happy ending. Praying for continued healing for all of your hearts! (((hugs)))

Anonymous said...

I can only imagine how scary that would be, but we are so glad to hear that Silas was found and is doing okay. Praise the Lord! We will continue to pray that he has a speedy recovery and doesn't get pneumonia.

In Christ,
The Hockemeiers

Erik Fast said...

it was good to talk to y'all, especially Silas, on the phone tonight. Praise the Lord for his protection and love. I will continue to thank him for his wonderful work in this situation.

Love,
Erik

Mandi @ Life Your Way said...

Just seeing this, Bethany...I think MY heart stopped when I started reading. Praising the Lord with you, and :hugs:

The Boehme (pronounced Bay-me) family said...

WOW, so glad Silas is okay now! Praise the Lord for His protection over your family! We will be praying for a total physical and emotional healing for him (and for you guys, too, I can imagine you were pretty shaken up).

Love,
the Boehmes

Jacki R. said...

(Gasp) We were in shock to read this. Praise the Lord that Silas is okay, and for all those who were able to come to his aid. We hope your family is home resting comfortably tonight.

lundbergfamily said...

Oh my goodness! Bethany, I can't even believe that, God is SO good. I am eader to talk with you in person, but for now, I am so thankful the Lord wasn't ready to take Silas home!

Unknown said...

Wow, wow, wow, Bethany! Rejoicing and praising God on the recovery of Silas. Blessed be His Holy Name. How wise to focus on Silas' recovery. Praying that your family will be surrounded by peace, comfort and joy in the following days.

Kim & Dave said...

Oh, my goodness, Bethany! How scary!

Thank You, Lord, that he's ok!!!!

Anonymous said...

All I can say is Wow. Thank The Lord that things were put into place sooo long ago that allowed both Tim & Bruce to know CPR. That they could work thier knowledge together, with prayers, to bring your little guy back. That your stepmom knew to step in & take care of your other dear children.
I am so thankful that you are all well in body & spirit! WOW, WOW, WOW! Our God is soooooooo good! I am going to add your family to our prayer chain for continued healing & rest. Love you!

Mom Of E's said...

How scary! I am so happy that your story has a happy ending. It made me go and give my kids big hugs and kisses. We are praying that all continues to be well, and that Silas has no complications.

Anonymous said...

Trevor and I are praying for you 100%. PLease let us know if there is anything we can do!!

Andrea said...

Wow, Bethany. I have not been on SL for a few days, so I just caught this. Praise God for His mercy.
(AndreaBT)

Anonymous said...

Bethany, praise GOD that all is well!! When we were hit by a logging truck this winter, I KNOW angels protected us - I'm so thankful they protected Silas too. Praying for your mama heart and against pneumonia.

Thank you Lord, for the 5 W's!!!

Hugs from Canada, Laurel

The Frechette's said...

Crying and rejoicing that Silas is alive!!!!!!!

Monica said...

Praise the Lord for keeping His hand on Silas! I'm so happy to hear that this story had a happy ending. You all are in my prayers.

Anonymous said...

Praise God for His mighty power and blessings.....

I love you all!

-Sonja