Tuesday, January 31, 2017

BOOKS I FINISHED - JANUARY 2017

Dancing With Max: A Mother and Her Son Who Broke Free, written by Emily Colson with Charles Colson

Technically the story of Colson's experience as the single mom of an autistic son, it's also an encouragement for anyone facing challenges that seem insurmountable to keep going, seek joy, and choose a positive attitude.

p.97 Cleaning is as mindless as eating, but you can still button your jeans in the morning. A clean house always makes me feel better.

p. 102, It's time to throw out my ideas of what I though life would be, should be, and let joy fill up those brand new vacancies.

p. 118, Vision statements are easier to live by when life turns out like a Hallmark commercial.

p. 132, I wondered if selflessness is what makes people more beautiful.

p. 156, In her selflessness, she not only left the door open for us to have a relationship with our father, but she used her own foot to wedge that door open. (Speaking of how her mom never spoke negatively about her dad after her parents divorced.)

p. 156, I didn't realize until later the power of his advice, that praying for someone else lets us see a ray of God's immense love for them, and some of that light spills back onto us. (Speaking of her dad's admonition that she and her son pray for her son's dad and his new family.)


One never knows how they'll respond to a particular situation until they're actually faced with it. From escape to active compliance to quiet non-compliance, the members of this family faced a totalitarian government in different ways, all trying to do what they felt was best for themselves as individuals and for their family as a whole. All made sacrifices, all were strong, all were committed to each other. I really enjoyed this book, a mix of general historical information and the personal details of one specific family.



God's Smuggler, written by Brother Andrew with John & Elizabeth Sherrill

I've known about this book for as long as I can remember, but I'd never read it. It's the neat story of Andrew van der Bilja, a man who spent decades sneaking Bibles and bringing encouragement to Christians living in countries where Bibles are prohibited and/or practicing their faith is against the law. It's also a story of a deep love for people and an even deeper faith in God. Religious freedom is something that should never be taken for granted! This is a school book that Silas has already read and Devon will read soon, but I read it on my own.



A Man Called Ove, written by Fredrik Backman

I tried this book once before and bailed on it, but was encouraged by several friends to give it another try and I enjoyed it the second time. Ove is a grouchy old man with strong opinions about how things should be done. He's also a man whose life feels aimless, a person who needs to matter to someone. And he's a man of integrity, a hard worker who believes actions speak louder than words. The book made me laugh in several places, but it was also a good reminder that we never know someone's whole story or how far our acts of kindness may reach in their lives.



The Mistletoe Secret: A Novel, written by Richard Paul Evans

A woman blogging anonymously about how lonely she is. A hurting man who stumbles across her blog and, relating to her feelings and admiring her honesty, sets out to find her. A chance meeting between the man and a waitress that turns into more than friendship. A fairly predictable love story that fulfilled my desire for some literary fluff.



Moonshiner's Son, written by Carolyn Reeder

A moonshiner who takes his craft very seriously, a preacher who believes alcohol is evil, a son who craves his father's approval, and a small town during Prohibition. Assigned for school by Sonlight, I read it on my own.



The Summer Before the War: A Novel, written by Helen Simonson

Friendship and family, following societal norms and bucking the system, romance and war, refugees and gypsies, dreams and goals, unity and conflict between social classes ... it's all in this story that I stayed up reading way too late one night. Recommended by my friend, Sharon, at The Compulsive Reader.

p. 12, "My father always says that if we were as quick to own our own faults as we are to apologize for those of others, society might truly advance."

p. 14, Lady Marbely had moved with the slow drag of a woman waiting her internment in the family crypt, her life and home dusty with protocol and made reclusive by walls of superiority.

p. 17, "Humiliation is the sport of the petty," an admonition of her father's that she found all to useful this past year.

p. 282, "Cheerful company is as welcome to melancholy as lemon juice on a burn," said Agatha.



KID BOOKS

Ay Caca, written by Stephane Frattini

Look at the picture of poop, guess what type of animal it came from, then lift the flap to see if you're right.


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Monday, January 30, 2017

ABSTRACT ART

It's common knowledge that I have the artistic ability of a brick, so I made sure to get proof that the little Ws created some abstract art with our homeschool group on Friday. Actually, I don't have proof of their art, but I do have proof they were there. 





Thank the good Lord for friends who enjoy talking about and teaching art to children whose mothers who are completely incompetent in that area!

Friday, January 27, 2017

MINI REUNIONS

In the last week-ish I've seen several people from my hometown - Dani, Pam, Pastor Shankle, Margie, Marcus, Shawna, Jenny, Richard, Matt, and Megan (and I almost got to see Alex, but we had to reschedule). I hadn't seen some of those people in 16 -18 years! Some were just minute or two conversations and others were hours spent together, but seeing all those faces in a relatively short amount of time made me happy. I only got picture two pictures, but that's better than none. Right? 



Thursday, January 26, 2017

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for clearance sales.

What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Wednesday, January 25, 2017

2016 - ANNUAL FAMILY & KID PICTURES

Here are the pictures each of the little Ws had taken during their birthday month in 2016, as well as our annual family picture. I realize the big boys are now closer to having a new picture taken than they are to the age when these were done, but that's fine. I like having all the pictures from the year in one place, even if that means some are several months old.

Devon kicked off the summer by turning twelve in June.




Silas turned fourteen later the same month.




 August rolled around and Naomi turned nine.




Then our winter kid turned five in December.




And we took family pictures the same month.





You know our family is all about making silly faces in pictures, but I never allow the kids to do them in professional pictures. Why pay for what I regularly do at home? However, we were asked by the photographer to make silly faces in that last shot. I love how it turned out and even went beyond my planned list to buy a few copies. 

All photos were taken at the JCPenney Portrait Studio in Salem, OR. Any imperfections are from me quickly taking pictures of pictures. If you want to see annual pictures from years past, then click here or on the "annual pictures" label under this post or on the sidebar.

Tuesday, January 24, 2017

PEOPLE THINK WE'RE RELATED


We've been friends for many years, sitting by each other in church twice a week, but over the last several months Kit and I have both heard questions and comments about our mom or daughter, referring to whichever one of us the person isn't talking to. We're not related in any way, but we're both happy to claim each other because sometimes church family becomes like real family. I'm thankful for this lady and her friendship!

Saturday, January 21, 2017

A LITTLE BIT MORE GIRL TIME

Two days ago Naomi got to spend time with one of her two favorite Pams and tonight she got to spend time with the other.

This Pam came over for our open house earlier tonight (or yesterday, I suppose, since it's so late now), but arrived early to take Naomi out for a bit. This is how they left.


And this is how they came back.


Shoes, shoes, and more shoes! (Plus a crazy hat Naomi thinks is absolutely beautiful.) The higher the heel and the more sparkly the shoe, the happier Naomi is, so she was thrilled with this pile of footwear. I love that these two share a love of all things girly! Pam shared a bunch of pictures in a public Facebook post, which you can see here.

Thursday, January 19, 2017

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for sunshine, rain, and temps in the 40s.

What's something that you're thankful for?

Wednesday, January 18, 2017

A LITTLE BIT OF GIRL TIME

Naomi has two Pams that she loves, except she calls them both "Mrs. (insert appropriate last name)". She talked with one of them on Sunday and tried to coordinate some time together. That time happened this morning and I got to tag along.

Pam swung by mid-morning, surprised the boys with a pizza, then loaded Naomi and I into her car. She gave us goodie bags filled with snacks, magazines, and so on,plus flip flops for Naomi, then took off for a nail salon. Pedicures all around, plus a manicure for the little lady!




After our feet and fingers were looking great we went to Red Robin for lunch and a few rounds of hangman. We unexpectedly saw Kit there, which was a cool surprise.


It was such a fun morning of chatting and laughing! What Naomi doesn't realize (so keep your lips sealed) is that the other Pam is coming over for our open house on Friday and is planning to swing by early to pick her up for some girl time. Both Pams in one week? Naomi's going to be giddy! 

Monday, January 16, 2017

THE GIFT OF SCREEN TIME

Several years ago we stole an idea from Catherine, giving 24 hours of unlimited screen time as a free gift that didn't have to be stored anywhere. Originally we gave it because we had absolutely no money to spend on gifts, but the little Ws love it so much we've continued giving it for some holidays, even though we have breathing room in the budget now.

Teebs had a birthday about six weeks ago and he was given 24 hours. It always takes anywhere from a few days to a week for the recipient to redeem the gift because they need two consecutive free days, one to play and one to sleep, but our December and January didn't go as expected and he was still waiting for his 24 hours.

Silas and Devon pull all-nighters, Naomi stays up really late, but Teebs had never been given this gift before. Realizing there's no way in the world he'd last 24 hours (and probably not even until 11:00) and that his concept of how long that time actually was, we granted his request to start his 24 hours after lunch yesterday. It wasn't so much about having 24 hours for him, but pure delight at knowing he could have all the screen time he wanted until he was so tired that it wasn't fun anymore.

He watched a couple movies that I had zipped to the library for and because Tim was home, hunkered down for tons of father/son video game time. He loved all 10 ... not 24 ... hours of it!

Totally focused.


Totally amused.


Totally exhausted.



Thursday, January 12, 2017

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful for a short walk outside.

What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Saturday, January 7, 2017

A DAY WE'LL NEVER FORGET

Today is January 7, 2017.

Today is the 25th anniversary of my mom's death.

Today is the memorial service for Tim's mom.

Today there is a snow and ice storm that is creating dangerous driving conditions all over our area.

Today I made the difficult decision to stay home with the little Ws, missing our mother-in-law and grandma's memorial service.

Today Tim made the difficult decision to drive in unsafe conditions in order to participate in his mom's memorial service almost an hour away.

In other words, today is rotten.

The anniversaries of my mom's death aren't always difficult, but twenty-five years feels like a significant milestone in the same way that ten (a whole decade) and sixteen (more years without her than with her) did. I wasn't going to even mention it, because today felt like it needed to be about Tim's family, but I'm changing my mind as the day continues to unravel.

It's been exactly a week since Linda died. That unexpected loss is fresh and today is supposed to be a chance for loved ones to gather in celebration of her life and support of each other, but many people will be unable to come because of the weather. I hate that. A lot. My mom's memorial service was such a blessing for me and I really want the same thing for Linda's family.

A friend sent me a message this morning, saying kind things at a point when my emotions were all over the place and I didn't want to complain online or to my family. The little Ws and I are going to curl up under blankets, including two we've been given because of Linda's death, to watch movies and read books. We have a beautiful bouquet we're enjoying, sent in sympathy for the loss of Linda. Tim is taking food to the service from two different friends of ours who didn't know Linda and have never met Tim's siblings, but just wanted to be supportive of his extended family today. Actually, one of them got sick and her mom, who we've only met once several years ago, ended up preparing the food instead, which was incredibly thoughtful. Tim packed chains, food, water, blankets, hats, gloves, and a toothbrush in case he gets stranded on his way home or ends up staying overnight with his sister if conditions are worse by the time the service is over.

So, there is good in the midst of the hard. But it's still a hard day. Really hard.

Thursday, January 5, 2017

THANKFUL THURSDAY

I'm thankful I took a spontaneous 24 hour break (36, if you don't count two very brief visits for very specific purposes) from e-mail and Facebook.

What's one thing that you're thankful for?

Monday, January 2, 2017

NEW YEAR'S EVE - 2016

Our New Year's Eve usually consists of Tim and little Ws in junior high or older attending a prophecy update, dessert, and worship night at church while I stay home with all younger kids. The homebound kids usually go to bed on time and I get some time alone to read a book, play online, or do whatever floats my boat.

This year was different as Tim got home at 11:00 in the morning from spending almost all week at the hospital with his mom and proceeded to sleep the rest of the day. We had a few minutes of conversation when he first got home and he still planned on going to church, so I said I'd wake him up at 7:00. As the day progressed, though, I decided to let him sleep until he woke up on his own. Silas and Devon were disappointed at the prospect of staying home, but understood my reasoning. As it turned out, Tim ended up waking on his own about 30 minutes after I was supposed to wake him up and they all headed out with just enough time to get to church.

That left me with Naomi and Teebs right about the time they should have been getting ready for bed. I decided to have some spontaneous fun with them and scrounged up a little celebratory snack. We pulled out some sparkling cider I forgot to serve on Christmas, the handful of Oreos left after making Oreo peppermint bark for Christmas, gummy bears a friend dropped off a couple weeks ago, and some roasted peanuts.


The kids were thrilled! We sat at the table and chatted for quite a while as we enjoyed our little treat. I love their smiles.


They made gummy bear rainbows, which I confess only made me think of the Deadhead bears.


And then, because I was already living on the edge, I decided to let them stay up way past bedtime. They spent an hour building and playing with the construction fort Teebs got for Christmas. That thing has provided countless hours of entertainment in the couple weeks he's had it!


They finally went to bed and I still got a good chunk of time alone before everyone else came home, but it was fun to have some special time with these two.


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